Authentic, Open, Fun: Loren Loubser on the Craft of Intimacy Coordination. On South African film sets, the presence of an intimacy coordinator is still relatively new. The role is often misunderstood—sometimes seen as a box-ticking exercise, sometimes feared as an intrusion into the director's vision. Loren pushes back against that. An actor,...
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The Alchemy of Trust
08/30/2025
On set, Samantha Murray's job is part science experiment, part tightrope act.
As an intimacy coordinator, she works in the space between safety and risk – where trust can turn choreography into something that feels like magic.
Holding Space in the Wild West
08/30/2025
Maude Sandham on intimacy, improvisation, and making space on South African sets
The intimacy coordinator is usually a department of one. In Johannesburg, where productions move at breakneck speed and budgets stretch thin, that can mean juggling fire-fighting with cappuccino breaks, choreography with quiet resistance. For Maude Sandham, one of South...
You Don't Have to Suffer for the Role!
08/15/2025
Katie Groves on Safe Character Work and Mental Health in Performance
Intimacy coordinator and newly trained mental health coordinator Katie Groves talks about why personal trauma shouldn't be a prerequisite for emotional truth, the small sensory tools that keep actors grounded, and how connection—not isolation—is the secret to great performances.
De-Roling and Wellbeing
05/17/2023
De-Roling The act of being able to step away from your character and return to self.
As an actor taking care of your mental health is vital for a long and healthy career in an industry that is emotionally draining, financially unstable, judgemental, superficial and generally precarious.
What does an Intimacy Coordinator do?
05/12/2023
Is an intimacy coordinator a legal requirement? Is an intimacy coordinator part of the creative team? Does an intimacy coordinator direct or choreograph intimate scenes? Should an intimacy coordinator just monitor for safety? Does the intimacy coordinator work directly with the actors?
CALL FOR APPLICATIONS: The Film & TV Industry Organisations Have Joined Forces To Offer Free Training Of Intimacy Coordinators To Enhance Safety On Local Film And TV Production Sets.
What’s the difference between an Intimacy Coordinator and an Intimacy Coach? Safe Sets are Intimacy Coordinators, but we’re often referred to as Intimacy Coaches…. This blog higlights the key differences.
Safe Sets South Africa -Review of 2021
12/14/2021
2021 has been quite a year for the Safe Sets Intimacy Coordination Team in South Africa! Kate Lush, Èmil Haarhoff and Sara Blecher with the assistance of Natalie Fisher and Jacki Job, have Intimacy Coordinated on TV and Film Sets in the Western Cape, Gauteng and the Eastern Cape, helping to create safer, more collaborative, sets, with actor...
Troukoors!
11/29/2021









